Dallas Divorce Lawyer Start your divorce on solid ground.

John B. Polk protects your finances and your time with your children from the first week, and works toward a fair settlement while preparing your case for court.

25+ years in Dallas family law · AV Preeminent · 4.7 on Google

John B. Polk, family law attorney in Dallas
John B. Polk · licensed in Texas since 1999

25+ yearsDallas family law, licensed 1999

AV PreeminentMartindale-Hubbell peer rating

Rising StarsTexas, 2006 and 2012

4.7 on Google10 client reviews

Working with John

How John helps in a divorce

  1. 01

    A clear plan before anything is filed

    You learn how Texas law applies to your facts, what to do and what to avoid, and what the coming months will look like.

  2. 02

    The house, the bills and the children settled early

    Where needed he asks the court for temporary orders, so who lives where, who pays what and the children’s schedule are fixed while the case runs.

  3. 03

    Settlement first, ready for trial

    Every litigated case is prepared as if it will go to trial, so any settlement is negotiated from strength, not from fear of court.

  4. 04

    The right experts on complex finances

    Valuation experts, forensic accountants, CPAs, tax advisors and financial planners when property or a business is at stake.

I highly recommend John for anyone going through a divorce. He was always available to give advice and strategize. I interviewed many firms big and small but chose John because of his experience and personal touch. He was very responsive. I felt like he was truly invested in making sure that I had the best outcome possible, and I believe that I did. Call John if you want a great lawyer who treats his clients like family.

J. C.Dallas divorce client

Your first consultation

Talk it through with John before you decide anything.

You leave the consultation knowing:

  • How Texas law applies to your situation
  • Your options: agreement, mediation, collaborative law or court
  • What to do, and what to avoid, before anything is filed
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Texas law, explained

The short answer

To start a divorce in Dallas, one spouse files an Original Petition for Divorce with the Dallas County District Clerk, after living in Texas for six months and in Dallas County for 90 days. The other spouse is then served or signs a waiver. Texas law does not allow the divorce to be granted before the 60th day after filing. John B. Polk, a Dallas family lawyer for more than 25 years, guides clients through each step, from temporary orders to the final decree.

How to start a divorce in Dallas, Texas

A divorce starts when one spouse, the petitioner, files an Original Petition for Divorce in a county where the case may be heard. For most Dallas residents that is the Dallas County District Clerk, and lawyers file electronically.

Residency

Under Texas Family Code § 6.301, at least one spouse must have lived in Texas for the preceding six months and in the county of filing for the preceding 90 days. Where you were married does not matter, so a couple married in another state or country can divorce in Texas once one spouse meets these rules.

Grounds

Many Texas divorces are filed on the no-fault ground of insupportability: the marriage has become insupportable because of discord or conflict of personalities, with no reasonable expectation of reconciliation (Texas Family Code § 6.001). Fault grounds such as cruelty, adultery, or abandonment also exist and can matter in how property is divided.

The petition is then served on the other spouse, or that spouse signs a sworn waiver of service after the case is filed (Texas Family Code § 6.4035).

How long a divorce takes in Texas

The legal minimum is set by Texas Family Code § 6.702: a court may not grant a divorce before the 60th day after the petition was filed. The clock runs from filing, not from service.

The waiting period does not apply when the respondent has been convicted of, or received deferred adjudication for, family violence against the petitioner or a member of the household, or when the petitioner has an active protective order or magistrate's emergency protective order against the respondent based on family violence during the marriage.

Beyond the 60 days, time depends on the case: how many issues are in dispute, how quickly financial information is exchanged, whether experts are needed, the court's calendar, and whether the spouses settle at mediation. An agreed divorce can be finished soon after the waiting period ends; a contested one takes as long as the disputes take to resolve.

What happens after the petition is filed in Dallas County

  1. Service or waiver. The respondent is served by a process server or constable, or signs a waiver.
  2. Answer. A served respondent has until 10:00 a.m. on the Monday after 20 days have passed from service to file an answer (Texas Rule of Civil Procedure 99). The respondent can also file a counterpetition.
  3. Temporary orders, if needed, set the rules for the house, bills, and children while the case is pending.
  4. Discovery. Each side exchanges financial records and information; sworn inventories are common.
  5. Mediation. The court can refer a divorce to mediation on its own or at the spouses' request (Texas Family Code § 6.602), and many cases settle there.
  6. Final decree. By agreement, or after a trial, the judge signs a decree dividing property and setting orders for any children.

A divorce can go forward even if one spouse does not agree to it. In an agreed case, usually only the petitioner attends a short final hearing; in a contested case both spouses attend hearings, mediation, and trial.

Temporary orders: the house, the bills and the children

Temporary orders are court orders that last until the divorce is final. Under Texas Family Code § 6.502, the judge can, after notice and a hearing, order temporary support, decide who has exclusive use of the home, require a sworn inventory of property and debts, order payment of attorney's fees, and limit spending to reasonable living expenses. In practice, that means a judge can decide who pays the mortgage, the car notes, insurance, and other bills while the divorce is pending.

When there are children, temporary orders also set conservatorship, the possession schedule, and child support. Many couples agree to temporary orders instead of holding a hearing. See child custody and child support.

How John handles a divorce: settlement first, ready for trial

You can get divorced in Texas even if your spouse does not agree: the no-fault ground of insupportability does not need both spouses' consent, and a judge decides any issue the two of you cannot settle. That is why John prepares each case so it can go either way.

John B. Polk has practiced family law in Dallas for more than 25 years and represents women and men. He prepares every litigated case as if it will go to trial while exploring settlement, and he handles cases through negotiation, mediation, arbitration, or trial.

  • Negotiation: direct settlement talks between the lawyers.
  • Mediation: he has resolved hundreds of family cases in mediation, as an attorney or as the mediator. See mediation.
  • Collaborative law: he is trained in collaborative law, a settlement process outside court. See collaborative law.
  • Court: when the other side will not be reasonable, the case is already prepared for trial. See contested divorce.

On property and business cases he works with valuation experts, forensic accountants, CPAs, tax advisors, and financial planners. For families, he refers to therapists, co-parenting counselors, and child development professionals when that helps.

What happens when you hire John

  1. 1

    Consultation

    John hears your situation and explains how Texas law applies to it. You learn your options and what to do, and avoid, before anything is filed.

  2. 2

    Preparation

    You gather financial records and set goals for property and the children. John decides with you whether to file first, propose an agreement, or start with mediation.

  3. 3

    Filing and temporary orders

    The petition is filed and served, or your spouse signs a waiver. If the house, bills, or children need rules right away, temporary orders are sought.

  4. 4

    Settlement or trial

    The case is negotiated or mediated with full information. If it does not settle, it goes to trial already prepared.

  5. 5

    Final decree

    The decree and any orders for retirement accounts or deeds are drafted precisely. John explains what each term means for you after the divorce.

Questions people ask

How do I start a divorce in Dallas, Texas?

You start a divorce by filing an Original Petition for Divorce with the Dallas County District Clerk, once you or your spouse has lived in Texas for six months and in Dallas County for 90 days. Your spouse is then served or signs a waiver of service. The court cannot grant the divorce before the 60th day after filing.

How long does a divorce take in Texas?

At least 60 days from filing, because Texas Family Code § 6.702 bars a divorce before the 60th day, except in certain family violence cases. After that, time depends on how much the spouses disagree, how quickly information is exchanged, and the court's calendar.

Do we have to be separated before filing for divorce?

No. Texas has no separation requirement before filing. Living apart without cohabitation for at least three years is a separate ground for divorce (Texas Family Code § 6.006), but a no-fault divorce can be filed without any period of separation.

Can I file for divorce while we're still living together?

Yes. Many Texas couples file while living in the same house. If living together becomes unworkable, the court can decide who has exclusive use of the home in temporary orders.

Can I get divorced if my spouse doesn't agree?

Yes. Texas allows a no-fault divorce when the marriage has become insupportable, and one spouse's objection does not stop it. The case simply becomes contested, and the court decides any issues the spouses cannot settle.

What if my spouse refuses to sign divorce papers?

Your spouse does not have to sign anything for the divorce to proceed. If they will not sign a waiver, they are formally served. If they do not file an answer by the deadline, the court can grant a default divorce after the 60-day waiting period.

Can I get divorced in Texas if we got married in another state?

Yes. What matters is residency, not where the wedding took place. One spouse must have lived in Texas for six months and in the county of filing for 90 days (Texas Family Code § 6.301).

Do I have to appear in court for a divorce in Dallas?

It depends on the case. In an agreed divorce, usually only the petitioner attends a brief final hearing, which some courts hold by video. In a contested case, both spouses attend hearings, mediation, and trial.

Can a judge decide who pays the bills while we're getting divorced?

Yes. Under Texas Family Code § 6.502, a judge can issue temporary orders on who pays which bills, temporary spousal support, child support, and limits on spending until the divorce is final. Couples can also agree to these terms.

What happens to health insurance during a divorce?

Coverage usually continues while the case is pending, and Texas courts can order both spouses not to cancel or reduce health insurance covering the other spouse or the children (Texas Family Code § 6.501). Once the divorce is final, a spouse on the other's employer plan generally loses that coverage. Where the plan is covered by federal COBRA law (generally employers with 20 or more employees), the former spouse can usually continue on that plan for up to 36 months, at their own cost, if the plan is notified within 60 days of the divorce.

Can my spouse force me to leave our house during divorce?

Not on their own. A temporary restraining order in a Texas divorce cannot exclude a spouse from the home where they live unless it is a protective order based on family violence (Texas Family Code § 6.501). A judge can award one spouse exclusive use of the home in temporary orders after notice and a hearing.

What happens if my spouse files for divorce before I do?

You become the respondent and must file an answer by the deadline in the citation, usually 10:00 a.m. on the Monday after 20 days from service. Filing second does not change how Texas divides property or decides custody. You can also file a counterpetition asking for your own relief.

John B. Polk

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